Monday, May 19, 2008

A Dads Legacy

Have you ever thought about the legacy your father left you? What did he leave behind for you? Did he leave you money, car, house, wisdom, parenting skills, love or spirituality.

As men, we usually resort to the way our father did things. We think, "I'm still alive so he must have done somthing right." We use these skills in parenting and the way we handle people in our life. If our father treated others with respect then we may do the same but if he handled situations poorly then we begin to emulate these skills as well.

What is our legacy to our kids? Do you want to follow your dads methods or are you creating your own legacy? As we grow into our roles as man, father, grandfather, son, and brother we begin to notice our ways of handling situations. We become more aware of our character and personality.

Will your kids follow your ways? How will they treat others? How will they handle their spouse, children or testing situations?

What is your legacy?

If you want to work on creating your legacy as a man, father, son and brother contact me.

Vini Nunez
Agape Life Coaching LLC
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Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Honest and Genuine Men

Being honest and genuine is important for a guy but It takes a lot for a man to do this. So, if you have a few weeks, months or years to bond with some good guys that have the same belief system as you then you are good. It's funny how women can get together at a party and share their most intimate feelings but get guys together and you might get a few words out of each of them, unless its over some cold beverages. If you pick your kids up from school notice how the women will gather together, hug each other and laugh while the guys stand against a wall with their arms crossed. It takes a lot for a guy to open up to other guys. So, if you are a honest and genuine man take time to have a real conversation with other guys. Find a men's faith group or talk with an old friend about some real issues in your life. You will feel so relieved.

Vini

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